My Reality

I am extremely stubborn you see; that kind of tenacity has its pros and cons, but my stubborn determination has helped me immensely so far on my life journey. Being stubborn has helped me be the person I am today and not being who others think I should be. In other words, I know who I am and do my utmost to dictate my own life.

Take it from me

no one is qualified to tell me or you what you can't do. Only you, know what is inside your head; your weaknesses, your strengths, your capabilities. How dare anyone try to put you, wonderful and unique creation of God in a box, simply because of the way you look, where you came from, the kind of clothes you wear - because that's what you can afford, the job you do - to make ends meet, and even your zip code.

You know yourself

You know the spirit that dwells within you; your innermost thoughts that no one can know or touch. You may have heard this many times before but I cannot help but say it here, and will say it again and again and again as many times as necessary. Believe in yourself, work hard, do not just simply follow your dreams, but go directly after them Full Speed Ahead; never accepting a NO, from someone who wasn't qualified to give you a NO in the first place. There is something great for every human on this planet. This I believe. But so many of us miss it during our Earthly Tenure, because we get caught up in all the negativity, in all the NO'S, no you can't do this, who do you think you are, In the you don't have enough money, in the you can't ever dream of living in this area, you can't dream of being in the company of Ms or Mr. so and so because you happened to come from a poor background, because of who your mother, father, sister, brother, friend was or is. Because you grew up in the ghetto, or dirt poor, or only went to this school, or you used to do this or that, so how dare you dream of, and now be anything greater eh?

Sadly to say, we are reminded of who we are, were, and should be, around the clock, and unfortunately we start believing it, falling right back into the box that our so called friends and associates dictate that we should be in, feeling so battered and nursing bruised and crushed spirits that we become bitter and scarcely have time for anything else. We live a lifetime of regrets, of shoulda, couda, woudas. If life is so short, time is fleeting, death begins at birth, today you're here tomorrow you're history (surely you've heard them all) then what are you waiting for? Grab that bull by the horn I say.

Take full advantage of

every day, every opportunity thrown at you, believe with all your heart that success is just a turn away just a matter of a bit of hard work, and perseverance with a good measure of patience. Do what you truly know that you're fantastic at. Open your heart to God and the power of the universe, and believe me you will BE. But by all means jump! Don't look back, jump out of that box, it's a psychological dream trap. Grab a hold of your dreams once again. Let go of those dreadful fears (unfortunately dreams don't come without them) and go conquer the world. Achieve the blessings that were already laid out for you before you were even born. Live well, live happy, and live free. Live the best way that you can, and by the way may I proudly offer to you my Congratulations on your success! Believe you me, it will come. God bless you. You have so earned it.